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So that happened. We were staying at a friends house to sleep and it happened, just like that, i cant believe it. I always said that i was never going to be that girl that lost her virginity to a guy in a one night stand, and that is exactly what happened.

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My mother never told me to carry condoms or offered to buy me any. I met him at a party, and he was obviously not a student. I had spent my sophomore year working very hard to get invited to things, to get dressed up for parties and to walk in heels to get to them. My roommate and I had been obsessed with the idea of finding boyfriends, double-dating and showing them off. By the time I actually turned 21, the sticky floors and endless games of beer pong had become dull.

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Share your story. Woman How old are you? Single Religious affiliation : Agnostic How religious are you? Heterosexual How many sexual partners have you had in your life including oral sex? What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was tall, skinny, and kind of cute. I thought he was really funny. He seemed very relaxed and confident. We met at his house the night before we actually slept together.

He was having a few people over for drinks and our mutual friend invited me.

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What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The night we met there was a lot of alcohol and drinking games, and everyone was kind of making out with everyone on dares, but I was making out with him just because I liked him. I had never really had strong feelings for anyone, but I wanted to have sex. I just wanted to have the experience and then be able to avoid him if it was terrible.

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We were both instigating the making out but I definitely took it further, not him. What sexual behaviors took place e. How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you?

Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?

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I was pretty inexperienced and a little uncomfortable. He tried to move down to give me oral but I pulled him up because I was uncomfortable. He asked if I was okay and I said yes. He asked if I wanted to keep going and I said maybe we could just sleep? He said of course, and he went to the bathroom, then came back and we cuddled and went to sleep. He had work in the morning so he had to leave early, but he let me stay and sleep.

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He was really nice and chill about it, considering I had instigated the whole thing and then just kind of been awkward and had no clue what I was doing. How did you feel about it the next day? How do you feel about them now? I was torn between wanting to give it another go and get to know him a bit, and wanting to never cross paths with him again.

I hung out with him again the following weekend but nothing happened outside of a few kisses. We had sex again but it was pretty similar to the first time. Now that I have more sexual experience I would be open to giving it another go!

Would be nice to have good sex to remember instead of just the awkward stuff! What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Check all that apply Condoms. What were your motives for this hookup?

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time?

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To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react?

My best friend the following morning, she was excited for me. I also told our mutual friend that had introduced us, she was super excited and hoped it would turn in to something.

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Some people at school found out too, but no one really said anything to me. One of my friends was talking to my best friend about it and she told me he said it was kind of creepy cause the guy was 6 years older than me but I never thought it was creepy.

He never pressured me. If anything, I was the pushy one. Mixed Some positive, some negative. Why do you regret this hookup? I thought losing my virginity would be painful and awkward, but if I just got it out of the way, then I could have good sex.

Losing my virginity to a stranger

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The guy I chose. Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me quite wary of sex for a while.

I think one night stands are great now, but not the best way to start out. What would you like to see changed in that regard? I hope more people can be open to casual sex and I hope it becomes more accepted, especially for girls who are generally judged far more harshly. What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I found it because I wanted to learn about the psychology behind casual sex. Is it healthy? Why do some people feel so negative after a hookup, while others feel empowered?

This project is exactly the right way to learn more!

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