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What exactly is a Master? Or Mistress.

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What exactly is a Master? Or Mistress. I have been asked this question so many times almost as many times as slave vs.

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A Master Electrician is one who is certified by a mobster-controlled union. I said a Master Auto Mechanic, not an honest one!

To become a Karate Master you must win a black belt from a reputable Dojo karate school. Even if one is a natural Dominant both in abilities and temperament, being a Master requires more than just that. Since many people meet online — I think giving some guidelines as to what a Master is would be helpful. Both for those who aspires to be a Master and for the slave or submissive who is looking for a Master.

A Master must have certain personal traits. Honesty, strength of character, the ability to communicate, the ability to inspire trust and respect, good judgment, self-control, patience, self-confidence tempered by dash of humility and a sense of humor are essential elements for a Master to possess. No one person can possess all of these traits. Before I get into specifics, I would like to address two character traits I believe are critical to becoming a Master. Even I wear sunglasses at night.

And though a Master should not be cracking jokes like Louis C. Nor have much fun attempting it. The other trait is being able to admit you made a mistake. Many Doms seem to think they cannot make — much less admit — a mistake. Everyone makes them.

There is no Doctrine of Dominant Infallibility. The ability to admit error, gracefully and without making excuses, is critical to the development of a Dom into a Master. Take this to the bank. Now onto the technical requirements I feel one would need to get my accreditation as a BDSM Master, if such an accreditation existed. The more you read, the more you know. Realtime experience is crucial.

I would think that some years experience in the lifestyle would be necessary. It has been said that the best Dominants have had experience as a submissive. This is open to debate. A Master should have mastered there is that word again! At the very least, a Master should know proper and safe flogging-caning-cropping-paddling-spanking techniques, and know how to use most BDSM equipment like the Saint Andrews Cross safely and skillfully.

A Master should know how to put a submissive into subspace and provide the proper aftercare.

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Although some Masters eschew public play, a Master should have gone to a bunch of play parties to get a feel for what others in the lifestyle are up to. Observing others at play parties — and ing local BDSM groups in your city and meeting others in the lifestyle — is the best way to learn these techniques. I think a Master should have at least one specialty that he is truly an expert in. It might be fire play, breast bondage, wax play, caning, wielding a single tail whip, rope bondage, mummification, cupping, electric play or any one of a myriad of BDSM skills.

Obviously, no one can be an expert in all areas. But a Master should strive to keep learning. Finally, a Master should always practice safe sex and safe play.

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A fun journey. Do you agree with my definition of what a master is? Let me know your thoughts in the comments below. His thoughts about all things BDSM will now appear regularly on these s.

There is a distinct difference between a Master and a Dominant as well as between a slave and a submissive. Any Master or Dominant will possess all of the characteristics you describe, just not in the same proportions.

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I agree that deficiencies must be addressed. There is also a distinct difference between players and living the lifestyle. I do not need to wear leather pants and walk around with a whip. My personality, demeanor, and command presence announce my presence.

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It is not a stage for performing. To control another life bdsm Dominant or a Master must become a firm understanding of the psychological theory behind personality traits, behavior modification and the nature of slaves and submissives. I agree that BDSM skills must be achieved, however, these are tools to mold and reinforce behavior of the slave. If you are playing then call yourself what you may as it does not matter.

If you are living the lifestyle there is much more than you have described. Too many one true wayisms in How article. No one can tell another master how to master. Invariably, it would come down to subjective judgments. Besides, how can you tell what a so-called Master does outside of class? At least this is the approach I take.

Follow my articles — and others here on kinkweekly. I love the part about sense of humour and humility. Masters are only human. It was sad. Man what a tall order: A Master must have certain personal traits. Well dam, that leaves me out! Then, No one person can possess all of these traits. Oh, ok so maybe there is a chance for me, LOL. I agree the journey is about enjoyment for both. And I might add affection. Some think they are born this way, with a Dominance or submissive tendency but nothing can replace learning and experience. Thank you so much for this weekly news brief I am loving it really.

I will definitely send my Dominant this link so he can read it as well so far the links that I have sent him he was proud of his girl. Share this: Twitter Facebook Reddit. Like Kink Weekly? Support us on Patreon! Become a Patron! We love you! Visit here to enable ad-free browsing.

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Comments There is a distinct difference between a Master and a Dominant as well as between a slave and a submissive. Nicely put. Knowledge can be power — the power to choose wisely! Excellent article,i am new to this and learned a lot.

Thankyou,look forward to your next article. Always play Safe Sane and Consensual.