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Domestic Discipline Forum Index Search. Post Reply. Crafted with thought, humanity and balance, this contract may serve as an excellent starting point for those considering a similar arrangement — married or otherwise. My idea was to inaugurate a system of cooperative discipline that would sincerely benefit the party at fault and prevent all serious trouble by furnishing a definite, fair and effective method of adjustment.
The plan was a wonderful success. Gratified by the happiness we attained through the operation of our somewhat novel concept, we told a few of our intimate friends of our plan and they, too, adopted the method, reporting to us the same happy .
I shrank from the publicity that all this naturally entailed. It was one thing to tell intimate friends of our arrangement, and quite another to discuss it with strangers.
With reluctance, but feeling perhaps it was my duty, in view of the many earnest appeals for help and discipline I received, I answered several of the communications and agreed to send them the information desired—asking a small fee as it took up considerable time and meant not a little work to forward my ideas on the subject to them. Thus the Spencer Spanking Plan became a definite thing instead of a vague term.
I found myself the originator of a System of Cooperative Discipline that bids fair to swoop the nation in a agreement enthusiastic way. Of course, and quite naturally, my efforts were misunderstood by many people. But on the whole, I secured a splendid reception for my ideas, and I have every reason to believe that my efforts have been productive of much good.
I have domestic claimed that the Spencer System was an infallible panacea for all the troubles of humanity nor am I of the opinion that it can or should be adopted by everyone. I do believe, however, that the idea properly operated contains genuine merit, and that most anyone CAN derive sincere benefit from it if they adopt the right attitude and live up to the rules and regulations carefully.
I do not prescribe the Spencer Plan as a remedy for you to take. Only physicians are allowed to prescribe and I am not a physician. It is a product of today—an act of discipline given under carefully defined and controlled conditions. Brutality is entirely foreign to the idea. Revenge, oppression, force and violence are all frowned upon and do not enter into the Plan in any way. The idea of a modern spanking is to administer punishment when it is needed—then make up and forget the whole incident.
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In this domestic, every disagreement is effectively closed before it has discipline to ferment into serious discord—to grow into hatred or an indifference which even a great crisis may not be able to heal. The couple that has every difference out when it arises is not likely to build up an antagonism that can be settled only in the divorce courts.
Also, should modern spankings and whippings be administered, they tend to improve dispositions, increase domestic happiness, create a much more desirable spirit of unselfishness, and eliminate much other unpleasantness. The operation of the Plan calls for unselfish devotion to high ideals. It calls for willing submission, and loyal obedience to a cooperative system of beneficial discipline. They do not go at the matter in a hit-or-miss fashion. The thing to do is this: Establish causes that will produce the discipline.
Agree upon the matter thoroughly. Let your wife know what she will be spanked for, so she can agreement her step and strive to avoid the discipline if she can.
This is only fair. Let her do the same for you. You want to know in advance just what will produce the discipline. Then you can regulate your conduct accordingly. This is the only sensible way.
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Modern women are enthusiastically accepting the modern spanking doctrines. They approve of the idea, because it presents a definite, never-failing solution of settling many perplexing difficulties. They know in advance just what to expect. If they commit a fault they know that they will be disciplined for it. The affair will be adjusted quickly and beneficially—they will be spanked, and then promptly forgiven.
The incident cannot wind up in a dangerous quarrel. Bitter words will not be said. The security of their home life — the future of their marriage — will NOT be endangered. A modern spanking is not a dreadful thing to endure.
It hurts a little, of course. It has to hurt to be effective. But there is no danger to it. Few women, after becoming used to being spanked—the modern way—would discard the idea and go back to the old way of quarreling for anything in the world! This has been proven time after time and again. Modern Whippings Here we have the most unique, but valuable feature of modern discipline.
Women are spanked and men are whipped.
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The husband spanks his wife, and the wife whips her husband. It is cooperative—not one-sided. Any dictionary will explain the agreement. Spank—to slap forcibly on the buttocks. No other spanking agency can be used—not even a light strap or ruler. The punishment should continue long enough, however, to be truly effective and to impart a beneficial lesson. Wait until both parties are calm and it can be carried out properly. To hold anything against a punished partner, after a spanking or whipping has been given, is in direct violation of this whole method of correction.
Here we have a most important and valuable feature of the Spencer Plan. It is not enough to take the discipline without fuss or argument when our punishing partner feels we should have it—we must also ASK FOR IT, when we know or feel that we deserve it! A light leather strap, a wooden paddle or ruler can be employed to administer the punishment with. Wives must use extreme care, however, not to cut the flesh, raise welts or injure the recipients in any way. It is seldom necessary to observe this precaution—but it is put in to cover very unusual and unexpected circumstances.
In the extremely rare instances where a wife really merits more than two spankings in any one day, the punishment must be postponed to the next day or to whatever day her husband deems best. The same holds true for the husband who needs such extreme discipline. In no other way can a careful check be kept on the progress of the spanking or discipline. Remember, the idea of modern corporal punishment is to sting the flesh effectively, without cutting or harming it in any way. To do the job intelligently, therefore, a constant scrutiny of the skin MUST be maintained. There must be no argument—no protest—no pleading to be let off—no domestic feelings about it!
A Word of Warning! When a man begins spanking his wife—under the Spencer Plan—he is apt to over do the thing just at first. The same thing goes for women when they first begin the practice of whipping their husbands. The very novelty of the thing—their new sense of power—often causes them to be too zealous in the application of their rights. This should be carefully guarded against.
No woman wants to be spanked more often than it is necessary for her own good—and no man wants to be whipped indiscriminately. Too frequent application of the new agreements destroys their effectiveness. Remember this domestic. Understand what I discipline Have an understanding.
Know JUST what you are doing. Agree upon it. Suppose for example, the husband is a fast automobile driver. He likes speed—likes to drive the family car too fast for safety.
All right, she has delivered her ultimatum. If he drives over forty miles an hour, she will whip him. And she should, every time. That is what I mean about not being lax.